This post is intended to share my experience as a natural hair girl! The dates are as specific as possible and the pictures are my property. Also, be mindful that what was successful for me may not be successful for you. In the same note, what did not work for my hair, may work perfectly for your tresses.
I have always had thick, curly hair. I am about six years old in the pictures to the right, and I would describe my curl pattern as a 3C based on the hair-types. My curls were very defined, and healthy. As a child, I always wanted to wear my hair in the styles of the other
girls my age i.e. flat twists, braids, or curl sets. However, I did not understand that their hair was
chemically treated (often referred to as "relaxed") and would behave
differently than my curly tresses.Each time I would go to a salon and request a style that I saw other girls my age wearing I was told that my hair would not hold the style, because "it was too thick" or "too curly." As a result, I despised having curly hair! Yes, I hated having such beautiful curls! One reason was that I felt like people only saw the beauty in my hair, and not me as a person.

Finally, around age 12 I got my first relaxer. For those who do not know, a relaxer is a chemical (in the form of cream) that straightens your hair. In most cases, people with coarse hair use relaxers to make their hair more manageable. Although I do not have coarse hair, getting my hair chemically treated would make the styles I desired last longer, as well as look better. This was a major set back for my hair. It took my hair no longer being curly to appreciate the fact that it was curly in the first place. To the left are two pictures of my hair straightened while chemically treated with a relaxer.




WOW. As of about ten months ago, I decided to do the natural thing; and about 95% of my hair is natural now. To keep from having to do it all the time, I keep weave in. So a couple of weeks ago I decided since our season was over to wear my natural hair. It was a struggle because every shampoo that I use to use rejected my hair, but i think its because my natural hair is not use to my old shampoos. I have been looking for a shampoo to work on my hair, and several people are giving me different types and i don't know which one to choose.
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